There is no more loaded topic than cheat on. Women always want to know why men cheat on their girlfriends or wives …
Whenever I get an email question about an infidelity situation, it’s usually one of them powerful emotions.
So you have to put on your armor for this article as we open up and expose the truth about deception here … If you are especially sensitive due to the betrayal of your past, this will cause a bit of chaos to your circuits.
Are you ready?
Here are some important things to look for:
First, ask yourself: is this person a cheater or Have they cheated?
One it is an identity: it is one cheats.
The other is a misjudgment: He deceived.
Even using the word “deceive” makes it all happen OVERLOADED with emotional energy.
Ever since we were kids, the concept of cheating has been a black and white ethical line. But if we are honest with ourselves, we do LOT of things that don’t fit in perfectly right vs wrong cells in a spreadsheet.
So keep that in mind circumstances you can create a trap-friendly environment per NO ONE. That’s right, after more than 25 years of training and working with people in their relationships, including mine, I firmly believe that We are ALL able to deceive.
Above all the people who condemn him the most!
There was a time in the late ’80s and early’ 90s when teleevangelists (not exactly heroes of moral behavior) were being caught right and left in sex scandals.
For many, it was shocking. It seemed completely to me expected.
We often judge something harshly and out loud in response our own fears of weakness.
In fact, the question I often ask myself is, “Why do it? ALL are men cheating? “
This is supposed to be something that ALL they do men when it has never been established as true.
So before he raised his fist and shouted, “Me? Cheat? NEVER!” …
Keep in mind that this often comes from a sense of betrayal that leads us to be deceived in the past.
SECOND IMPORTANT THING: The truth about deception is no what do you think …
Cultural stereotypes (you can blame television for that) say so men they are more likely to cheat.
This is it is not true.
The difference in the percentage of cheating men compared to cheating women is negligible. The fact is that women are much better at rationalizing and hiding their indiscretions.
ThereI said that …
I’ve interviewed experts on the subject of infidelity and why men cheat so many times in the past. And I revealed it the ugly secret that very few people can talk, and that’s it neither sex is beyond hurting their partners.
When it comes to this, we are all capable of doing what it takes to get what we need. no one it is beyond any deception to satisfy their emotional and biological impulses.
So as I explain the 3 reasons a boy cheats on his wife or girlfriend, I want you to keep that in mind. These reasons can too being a woman’s reason for being unfaithful to her husband.
The result is the same, but the difference is that each sex has a reason for cheating, only with a different priority.
Why men cheat – REASON 1: Seek sexual validation …
This one probably won’t surprise you. Men are often labeled as “dogs” who “can’t keep them in their pants.”
Men are branded as unreliable perverts, addicted to porn on every device we buy. We call the women on the street corners and sexually harass them on any occasion. Looking forward to the first opportunity …
Well, the vast majority of men are actually very faithful and looking for the same compromised relationship you are.
The real problem here is BIOLOGY vs. WILLPOWER.
Will a man’s willpower and intellectual strength be sufficient to control his biological needs? sexual desire…?
If you have ever tried to fight this momentum at 22:00 DO NOT eat this candy sitting there in the butter compartment of the fridge (the one that was on the counter before, but you tried to hide it yourself), you know what i mean about this struggle.
That THE NEED is deep in your bones. This desire to satisfy one of our most basic needs: FOOD.
Guess what the most powerful need is it after meeting our needs for food, water and shelter?
It is a NEED, too. No a to wantoa nice to have.
It is a biological imperative that humans must be committed or we would become extinct in no time.
For men, it has even more hooks in our brain than we want to admit. We are not completely controlled by our groin, mind you. But he has one LOT of influence on our decisions.
So yes, guys want this joyful experience of satisfying our sexual need.
Those women who ignore this basic need do not do it by the way, they are doing well in their relationships.
Why he was unfaithful – REASON 2: seeks emotional validation …
This is often cited as the main reason why women cheat. Women are usually interested in the sex that includes (or at least promises) some kind of emotional or relationship connection.
Helen Fisher, an anthropologist at Rutgers University, found that men and women cheat on their spouse:
“34 percent of women said they were ‘happily married,’ while 56 percent of men felt that way.”
That means the men were watching get something they weren’t getting in their main relationship.
Maybe they expect more than their spouse was capable of.
Women look for this emotional connection as their own validation. And when a woman doesn’t have a real intimate connection in their relationship, she will deceive.
When a man is not validated, he will also search elsewhere – especially if he does not know how to communicate his need effectively.
Most men learn by watching the behavior of others, rather than talking about what goes on behind the behavior. So you can only learn from the example of the boys who cheated out of frustration or weakness.
SECRET TIP: If you want to help cheat your relationship, you need to know how to validate your man.
I’ll show you how you can do it in a while …
Why Men Have Business – REASON 3: Immature Relationship Skills …
If a man does not have much experience in mature and engaged relationships, he will return to the common denominator of most romantic connections:
Many men have not worked with their developmental challenges in relationships. Some men get bogged down in their inability to manage intimacy and connection.
And keep in mind that for most men, sex IS the relationship on many levels. It’s like a man feeling intimacy and connection.
It is always easier to jump into a new bed and enjoy this visceral emotion of a new sexual relationship than to solve the problems you have in the relationship you have.
Both men and women are guilty of throwing up perfectly good relationships that were sometimes uncomfortable. They left simply because they fell into that mistaken belief that if their partner was “The only one“the relationship should be” easy “.
His immature relationship skills also include those times when it seems like a guy can’t break things. He decides that he will only cheat pass the responsibility on to him to do what he cannot do.
Or if their insecurities outweigh it, such as when it is validated as desired by women through fast sex. Ego it’s a big part of a man’s self-opinion and how he judges his self-esteem.
Like women, men often have more than one reason to cheat on their partner …
But this is the same: Get something that is missing from the relationship.
In short, is to keep secrets and constantly lie which causes more pain when there is infidelity in a relationship.
Noit’s not fun to think about your spouse or boyfriend doing the dirt with someone else, but that’s just the most superficial part of the pain when you look at it closely.
We must be able to set aside the person’s judgments and move on to the next level:
“Understand that the person we love is still in there, trying to meet their needs …”
If you want to create the kind of relationship that gives you the security and satisfaction that makes you commit to YOU - and ONLY you – foreverI have a free presentation that you should see …
THIS IS HOW TO RELY YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
You see, every man has a “password“in her heart. For the woman who knows it and knows how to” hack “her love and desire, she is there to take it.
Check out my free presentation on your heart’s password …
#men #cheat #girlfriends #wives #reasons
Sometimes we include links to online retail stores. If you click on one and make a purchase we may receive a small commission.