The old question: can attraction grow? In this video, you’ll find out what to do when the attraction isn’t strong at first.
Can attraction grow? Maybe you went out with men where the “it” factor wasn’t there. They were kind, smart and handsome, but there were no butterflies. Do you keep dating men like that and expect the attraction to grow? In this video, you’ll learn how attraction can grow and what it takes to make it happen.
Can attraction grow?
Most of us think we need instant chemistry
From a young age, we are fed up with the belief that romance is full of butterflies and rainbows. She sees it from across the room, and there’s fairy dust and background music. They immediately feel attracted. He rescues her on her white horse and they live happily ever after. Yes, this is almost never the case in real life.
And if any version of this story happens, it usually runs out quickly. This is because lust or anxiety usually gives you these butterflies. You may have been lucky enough to be chosen by a man you liked, but you weren’t sure about his feelings and the intense ups and downs of the relationship. Did this attraction feel like love? Maybe so, but this is not love and it is not healthy.
If you’re used to “butterflies” as a sign of attraction, it can feel boring to be with men who don’t activate you right away. This has to do with your linking style.
For example, if you’ve had unhealthy conditions with men who are avoidant, the typical bad guy who makes you guess how he feels about you, you don’t easily attract men who are safe.
The security of the world may seem boring. But they are often amazing partners and are far from boring once you meet them. They’re just not what you’re used to.
How can attraction grow?
There are ways to grow yours attraction with kind, respectful and available men. If you can imagine kissing him one day, that’s a good sign. If he is responsible and continues to show himself as someone you can trust, someone you are still curious about, give him more time.
When we care about someone, we create affection for that person. And with affection, the attraction grows. Our brain creates new neural pathways of connection and attraction. So if there is any attraction and you are still curious about a man, I recommend you go on at least three dates. If you still don’t feel like the attraction is getting stronger, he might be a nice guy, but he’s not right for you.
Let your attraction grow
Instead of always thinking that there is someone better, focus on Mr. Good Enough, the man you’re dating right now. Attraction can be built through physical touch and emotional connection. And maybe you’re just forging the most loving relationship you’ve ever had.
Have you ever had a relationship where the attraction grew? Please share your experience below.
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