In this episode of the Breathe Love & Magic podcast, we talk about dating a narcissist and how women who are HSP, empathetic, and spiritually tend to attract them. Susan Ortolano finally clarifies why this is happening and what you can do about it.
Presentation by Susan Ortolano
My guest Susan is a life coach and intuitive relationship with serious credentials and a great wisdom that she generously shares. Between his masters in spiritual psychology and all the metaphysical tools he uses, he can help you understand what is going on and how to make better decisions.
Narcissistic men and relationships
Susan is an expert on dating a narcissist and dealing with this type of man. This is because she herself has experience, having survived her own marriage and divorce.
This relationship from her past provided her with a deep understanding of how women end up in these heartbreaking and devastating relationships.
After working on her own healing, she is now happily married to a wonderful man for the past 21 years. And Susan! Epic and lasting love is completely possible.
His first-hand knowledge of toxic relationships with an egocentric man provides a keen eye for listeners who are incredibly wise and very insightful.
I was amazed that very sensitive, spiritually minded women, who are often empathetic too, are naturally attracted to these men. Apparently, they are like powerful magnets. Yes, this kind of person who is characterized by a scandalous bravado, is covering up a very fragile ego.
She explains why this is true and how she has seen this happen to her clients over and over again. Don’t blame yourself if this is like your story. The good news is that it can teach you how to spot a man like this to avoid dating a narcissist. This is one of Susan’s specialties!
Signs of a modern narcissist
- Very often attractive, charming, smart and maybe even smart.
- It seems ideal: at first there are few flaws as you are dazzled, until you realize that not listening, controlling behavior and talking only about what interests you are big shortcomings.
- He changes the subject or does not answer awkward and personal questions that reflect him badly because they hate confrontation.
- He may ask for you in a restaurant, but he rarely asks you what you would prefer.
- He cannot accept any constructive criticism or look inside to see where the causes are in a situation.
- He doesn’t have the ability to empathize or put himself in someone else’s shoes, so he probably doesn’t understand where you’re coming from. If it’s you, it’s not him.
- He never apologizes or says he is sorry or at fault, in any way genuine and sincere.
- He sees you only as a reflection of himself: what he wants, needs or thinks. If you agree with everything and you don’t have your own needs, you’ll be fine, LOL.
More details on how to spot a narcissist (which could be male or female)
Dating is not being in a relationship
We’ve also talked quite a bit about how dating is not the same as having a relationship. However, many women, after a few dates, focus on a man they barely know for chemical and other reasons. Chemistry can distract you because it is not an indication of compatibility beyond attraction.
However, if you start thinking about dating as a sorting process to find the man who has the most potential as a long-term partner, your chances of building a lasting relationship improve a lot.
That’s why it’s smart to lengthen the dating process and meet many men before starting a relationship and engagement with anyone. Then going out with a narcissist will not be a concern. The men you date will be more likely to show off their true colors.
Dating affects your chakras
Ortolano also works with your chakra system, to eliminate any block or slow energy. You want to make sure that you are well aligned and that everything works well for a better balance. He mentioned how his first marriage affected his own chakras.
In addition, there is a discussion about how to learn to use your intuition when meeting new men. I revealed one of my attempts years ago to do it on a date and why I failed miserably!
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I’m excited about this episode which was a lot of fun. Susan and I connected on dating and life experience topics, sharing a few laughs, and finally our expert wisdom in relationships. Enjoy!
Susan Ortolano is an intuitive life and relationship coach who specializes in working with soul-centered, mentally spiritual, and empathetic women to attract, find, and maintain epic, conscious love. She also specializes in working with couples looking for a deeper, more connected, more sacred association.
Known for using metaphysical practices with other specialized techniques, Susan earned her master’s degree in Spiritual Psychology, is a certified triple life and relationship trainer who has been teaching clients on 5 continents how to attract and thrive in their epic, conscious and of sleep since 2006..
Susan believes that relationships and marriages are the best path to personal growth and healing and can be easy when people have the right skill set, the level of self-conscious awareness of themselves and their partner. He has appeared in numerous online programs, podcasts, radio programs, even presenting his own.
After being in a toxic and painful first marriage that ended in divorce, Susan has been happily married to her own amazing and conscious husband, Rick, since 2001.
Susan also offers intuitive readings! Learn more about her at SusanOrtolano.com
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