Why don’t you ask me out on the weekend? Do you have a girlfriend? Discover revealing signs that you are not the only woman in your life.
I went out with this hot guy for weeks
Have you ever dated a guy you had a great time with and watched weekly, but for some reason, never on the weekends?
I met this hot guy at a bar. Wide shoulders, tight abs and a large jaw line. Very attractive and masculine. He was kind of a bad guy when he was 40, you know the kind of guy.
We looked at each other as we walked to the women’s room. When I got back to the dance floor, I stopped to start a conversation.
He asked me to dance and he was a great dancer! Wow, a man who seemed confident was a good change. We danced a few times, then approached a table and talked for a while which was fun.
He asked for my number, then leaned over to kiss me on the cheek before disappearing into the crowd. Who was that boy?
Observe the actions of a man
He called after a couple of days and asked me for dinner. Yes! He arrived on Friday night and we went out, we had a great time. It was so romantic, I loved it. I was totally captivated by its European accent, good looks and charm.
He called again and we went out several more times. Time together was always fun, enjoyable, and made me guess. I never knew what would happen next and make the situation so exciting.
It never occurred to me to even ask, “Do you have a girlfriend?”
When I was with him, I felt like the most incredibly attractive woman, more than ever in my entire life. it was as if he had finally come to life.
We had that steamy chemistry that women always talk about and drool over.
Pay attention to confusing behavior
Still, I began to feel confused by his actions. After our first date, we never saw each other again on a weekend night. Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, safe. Maybe even on a Sunday afternoon. But never another Friday or Saturday night.
What could this be about? I had no idea, but I kept seeing it because I had a great time.
I wondered what it might mean not to have weekend dates. No one had an explanation for this strange behavior. They could not find any valid reason that made sense and that they had not encountered this problem before.
How is it possible that no one knew the signs of being a girl next door or asked her if she had a girlfriend?
The Truth Comes Out
One night I decided to just ask him. “Hello, Romeo” (as I referred to him with my friends, but never in the face) how come we never meet on the weekend?
To my surprise, he really responded to me and was sincere. He said, “I have to see my girlfriend someday.”
Time stood still and I felt my world sink. I said, “What? What did you say?”
Romeo replied indifferently, “I’ve had a girlfriend for two years now. I see other women besides her, but not on weekends. This time is just for her.”
If I hadn’t heard this straight from his mouth, would I have believed it?
Do you have a girlfriend? Yes!
My stomach tightened as if I had been punched and air came out of my lungs. This certainly answered the question of whether he has a girlfriend. Yes it does!
That was the end of Romeo. I didn’t make a big scene, but I said I wasn’t interested anymore and I definitely sent it out the door. I doubt he cared. In fact, he had a good smile on his face.
But this situation gave rise to an open look at how some men think about dating and relationships.
Not everything is always as it seems and it is not prudent to assume anything.
Ask him out well if he is no longer absorbed in the connection.
If you’re dating a guy who doesn’t have time for you on the weekends, something is NOT right. Be brave and ask him to see what kind of answer he gives you.
You can change the subject, avoid the subject, or invent something. No matter what comes out of your mouth, if you feel uncomfortable giving the answer, you know something is wrong.
Observe your body language and especially your eye contact. Did he look you in the eye when he answered? Or has it been turned? This is the sign of a liar, so pay attention to his body language rather than his words.
Signs that you are a side chick
Here are nine additional signs that it could be a “side chick” and the man you’re dating is having a girlfriend or a girlfriend.
1) It will not tell you who is texting
Your husband always texts people, but is he mysterious? If you think you’re keeping secrets, chances are!
2) He likes to stay home with you
Your husband tells you he’s tired from work and just wants to curl up on the couch. Or he’s a house man and he wants to keep you for himself.
Both reasons should sound the alarm. If he doesn’t want to be seen in public with you, there’s a reason, as if he has a wife and can’t be taken with you.
3) You’ve never been home
Even though you may have wondered, you’ve never seen where he lives. Maybe he says your site is much better or he is ashamed of how messy his is. Be careful! He hides something and it can be you.
4) It will not allow you to take a picture
He is very firm in this: there are no photos of him for social media or even for yourself. The reason it doesn’t matter, this is very suspicious. If you’re still wondering if he has a girlfriend, now you know he has one.
5) It has rules on social media
While he may blame this on work, he is against being on social media. You can never add or post as a friend. He just won’t have it.
6) He never stays
Even though he spends a lot of time together, he never spends the night. No matter how much you ask or the creative ways you find to get it done, staying is not an option.
Because? Most likely, it’s not because he won’t sleep well, but because he has to go home with his main wife.
7) You have never met your family or friends
Even though you introduced him to the people in your life, he didn’t do the same. You are his secret, which may seem so sweet, but it is a great red flag that his curious cannot know about you. That’s because he has a girlfriend.
8) He only arrives when he wants sex
It is not often known between appointments. In fact, when you think about it, it only sends text messages when you want sex. This tells you everything you need to know. Don’t let it use you!
9) He is not free to see you during the holidays
This is a classic red flag that answers the question, “Do you have a girlfriend?” If he can’t see you on vacation, he’ll probably spend it with someone else.
Red flags indicating that he has a girlfriend
You now have a total or 10 red flags that let you know that something is wrong and that the guy you are seeing is probably having another woman in his life. You can no longer ignore this lingering question: Do you have a girlfriend?
Be brave. He’s not the only man on the planet for you, even if he looks like that right now. Even if you love him more than any man in your life, don’t settle for a liar and a cheater.
If you are looking for lasting love and commitment in a traditional relationship, stay away when you find that you are seeing someone else.
The chances of the other woman leaving are very slim and almost non-existent no matter what she tells you.
You become the other woman because he was with her first. Don’t fall into this trap.
Healing and overcoming this man is possible when you put your mind to it. Then, when you feel ready, go out and look for a new man who is ready for the relationship. He exists, so don’t settle for less!
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