Last week was the start of a series of four-part blogs on sex. In the first part, we talked about how to change the date in your apartment. Next week we will talk about the previous games, but first we have to address the sexiest topic of all: consent. If you want to play Pants-Off-Dance-Off, it’s always a good idea to check the rules first. Consent can be tricky and a little ambiguous at times, but for your safety and yours, you should always be 100% sure that both of us they are interested and ready to do it before they do. Can you hear me?
I don’t think you need to ask permission to kiss or touch your partner, as long as you’re sure he’s interested. However, when the night passes from drinking to sex, you should ask the question. You don’t have to be a medical professional. You can make it sexy … but always wait for your answer before continuing. However, there is an exception to this rule: even if she says yes, don’t have sex for the first time when you’re drunk.
There is no such thing as a good idea to have sex with her when she is intoxicated. You are not more knowing her. You don’t know what your tolerance for alcohol is, what your limits are, or what kind of person you are. Even if she is an active participant and is clearly trying to buy a ticket to Pound Town, DON’T HAVE SEX WITH HER. The only two people in the room when you had sex are the two of you. If you wake up in the morning without remembering what happened, a scenario she said she will be your worst nightmare. Obviously, you don’t rape people, but even if it’s 100% consensual, you can’t afford to be in such a vulnerable position with someone you don’t know very well.
Assuming it’s not wasted, rely on your body language. If her body hardens at your touch, she doesn’t want you to touch her. It doesn’t mean she doesn’t like it, it just means she’s not ready to make the relationship sexual. You should treat their nonverbal cues as a “no.” If she says no, then Dad. “No” doesn’t mean “convince me,” it doesn’t mean “maybe” or “wait 5 minutes and try again.” If at any time he tells you to stop, the only appropriate answer is to stop.
I’ve noticed that in several conversations with my clients, there seems to be an assumption that women need to be persuaded to have sex with you. I’m here to dispel this myth: YOU SHOULD NEVER CONVINCE HER TO FUCK YOURSELF. Girls like sex, man. We like it very much. Don’t assume she’s a delicate princess on top of a tower and you’re trying to lure her into your fornication cave. She’s not a princess, and even if she is, the princess is fucked. Sex is a bit of what the whole royal lineage depends on. You are an old man and she is an adult woman. If you both want to have sex, you should. If one of you is hesitant, be respectful of the limits of others. Are there girls who pretend not to be safe because they want you to ask for it? Sure … but do you really want to be with someone who is unable to be honest with you? Your answer should be a resounding no.
Sex should not be taboo, it is a natural part of adult relationships. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Before you put your cock in, ask. It’s really as simple as that. If you are interested in consulting my services, get a gift card for a friend or read what other people have been saying about me, give me a call!
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