So a while back I was contacted by what I would call a poor quality videographer. He contacted me, told me he likes what I do and told me he can improve my business with videos. He dropped some names, people I know apparently he knows too and told me he was helping them too.
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He did a review for some of my videos where I actually show close-up images of myself talking to women. And one of the things he didn’t like was the fact that he was blurring the faces of these women for privacy reasons, obviously, and secondly, for legal reasons.
He told me he should blur their faces, gave me an example of a guy he knows who is also a dating coach and made videos with real approach images, but he didn’t blur them and they sued him . Apparently, he won his case. I don’t know who he is or where that was, but apparently he won his case for some reason. And according to this videographer, he did well.
Well, on the one hand, apart from the fact that it’s not completely ethical, I’m definitely not interested in wasting time in court.
So he told me about another guy he helped and they filmed some videos together, but they were fake pictures. Basically, they staged some approaches with very beautiful female actresses. And instead of telling their audience that these were staged approaches, they tried to interpret it as real. And he said, I should do that too.
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Also something I am completely against, because when I introduce myself to my clients and a potential client, I am interested in presenting the real self and I am interested in teaching things based on my own values, and that does not fit into my own values … present a lie. To me, his whole mindset was pretty shocking.
I don’t think it’s good for a company to lie and use marketing to distort your business or what your customer is receiving. Now for him this is perfectly fine, just a part of doing business.
And unfortunately, I don’t think he’s alone, including the examples he mentioned in which these guys were either showing women’s faces for real approaches or interpreting staged approaches as real approaches.
This also reminds me of situations where I was with clients I worked with in the past and they felt they had to lie to the women they approached because they didn’t feel they were good enough, just presenting who they really were.
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I feel like there’s a problem in a lot of people’s lives where they don’t feel good enough as they are and don’t feel like presenting the truth because that won’t be good enough.
And they have to invent a story for everyone to enjoy or for someone to buy their stuff or services. And I think that’s a big mistake because you’re not allowing the world to see your true self.
Nor are you allowing the experience, of the real you. And that doesn’t mean you can’t make improvements to your “real self.” And I put it in quotes because obviously we’re always changing.
Being a human being is a really dynamic thing. We are not static. We are not trees. Your personality will change with the influences you have and the different experiences you have in your life. And you might be able to identify things that you think aren’t really great and aren’t in line with who you want to be.
And that’s good because now you can work for the things you want. You can work to be the kind of man you want to be, to have the kind of lifestyle that a man has. But it’s a mistake to go out there and lie and pretend to be something else that you are not.
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Now pretend until you get it. I think it’s really okay because you could actually pretend to be a confident man and as you do well, do the things that a confident man makes you do actions, but that’s not the same as pretending you have a sleek car or an expensive house . or telling people lies about yourself.
Instead, take action that demonstrates the kind of man you are or the kind of man you want to be. And you will become this man through these actions, as well as through other influences in your life, such as what you read, what you see on TV or video, these things will have an effect on you.
And that’s one of the reasons I don’t like watching the news. It creates a negative distortion of reality by focusing only on the negative things that are happening in the world, even though so many good things are happening and probably good things are happening in your life or good things that you might be going through.
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So leave a comment below. Tell me, what do you think it means to be a real man and to be the real one? And until next time, Conquer and Win.
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