What makes a girl beautiful?
What makes it attractive to a man?
Many women think that you need to be a model of beauty to attract a man these days. And that is simply the furthest thing from the truth.
Men have been – and always will be – attracted to attractive women.
Yes, we could pretend that boys don’t chase girls who are horrible, nasty, and completely wrong for them just because they think they are beautiful. We know it guys do this.
But we also know that this is completely superficial, and it is almost a sure bet that it will not last.
So let’s put aside the shallow connections for now so we can look at what makes men fall in love with you and stay with you.
Because you have to attract her with those parts of you that have nothing to do with makeup and fashion. And they have everything to do with your “soft qualities.”
What are the “soft qualities”? And what really makes a woman attractive to a man?
Well, let’s delve deeper into these 7 things that make a girl beautiful for a boy. And you can trust these, because I’m a guy, and I’ve been around a lot of women.
Number 1 way to be beautiful – be happy.
Look, no one is asking you to be a super happy party with bubbles. (Actually, these people can be downright annoying.) You also don’t have to act like you’re one of those exaggerated positive thinkers.
But if there’s one thing that can make a woman twice as pretty at first glance, it’s her general attitude. Normal girls are usually just like that because they are May all so happy.
Have you ever been in a conversation with someone and two minutes later felt like you needed to run away as fast as you could?
Or they have this grumpy mindset that takes any issue you raise and makes it instantly negative and disappointing.
Attractive girls are simply much happier, and this is noticeable in their face, body language, and conversation.
- They are excited to see you and make you feel wanted and interesting.
- They talk about whatever topic they come up with and are generally more pleasant.
- They also have a certain joy in their outlook on life that makes conversations a pleasure instead of a load.
It’s a relief from the shady, defeatist people you meet most of the day. They hate their job, their life, or both.
So focus on a smile and be a bright spot on someone’s day if you want them to feel a natural gravity near you.
# 2 Way to be beautiful: be STABLE.
Men need stability and peace in our lives. And nothing ruins faster than a crazy bride throwing a lot of drama into our world.
Sure, you have yours occasional moments of crying for no reason, and maybe one or two chats from time to time. But you should do your best to keep them out of sight for the first two months of dating.
If there’s one thing you can do to be attractive and interesting to a guy, it’s to make him believe that you can handle your own emotional situation without involving him so much in the “drama”.
Later, you will have no problem offering you an occasional soothing hug and emotional support. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
# 3 The way to be beautiful is: you know how to cook …
Oh yeah, I know what you’re thinking: “Carlos, are you giving me sexist stereotypes like this? The next one, you’re going to tell me I need to be barefoot and pregnant …”
Uh, no. This may seem like an old concept, but it’s true for a reason: without a doubt, men like it when women can cook it.
These days, everyone is ordering from a fast food window or putting something in the microwave in a box. So it’s a great relief when you know that from time to time you can get a good homemade meal.
It doesn’t have to be an exquisite 3-course meal, but something simple that shows that you care about taking care of it.
The number 4 way to get attention is to not take your relationship too seriously …
Look, I get it … a relationship is important. For many women, twice as much.
But you can’t let your focus become THE RELATIONSHIP. Guys feel when a woman is too much in the relationship and makes her her only focus, as if her future depends on it.
He may feel that your connection to him is all this matters, especially after you have had a disagreement or a fight.
But a boy will be looking for clues that you are ONLY looking for a long-term partner or husband to “clarify”
Must see that you can have fun right now.
Women who are more attractive to a boy will have other things in their life, and she will not get too caught up in the little things in the relationship.
Trust me when I tell you that most guys see it as an important red flag.
The number 5 as you see how attractive you are is: you have fun in bed …
Ask any guy how crazy he was with his ex-girlfriend, and he’ll start with something nice and rational, like “We’re going in different directions” – and then end with, “And she wasn’t great. In bed.”
When a woman is half decent in bed, a boy he won’t to complain. But if she’s too relaxed and inanimate, she starts to think that means she’s not happy with him.
Maybe it’s not so interesting, or so appealing.
And if she starts to sense that maybe she’s not so interested in him, she’ll start to think he’s looking to cheat on her, or maybe end the relationship. And many guys will break up first just to avoid all this drama.
So you want to make sure sex is good. Especially in the early months, when lust is approaching.
Many girls are afraid of being seen as a whore and are therefore more reserved in the bedroom. But men are also very afraid to get into a relationship and then sex stops.
You don’t need to go crazy gymnastics or have the flexibility of an elastic band, but you should focus on keeping your energy and excitement in bed.
Men, we don’t need superhuman tricks with your tongue, but we need you to show that you like it. emotionally.
# 6 The way to be beautiful is: you have your own interests and passions …
In fact, this is much more important for men than for many women, and it is also one of the main complaints I hear from men.
Remember when I told you it’s very appealing when a woman doesn’t take the relationship too seriously? Well, that advice is directly related to that.
If a woman is too focused on the relationship, she tends to let her own needs slip. And finally a man feels that pressure, and explodes when you have a crisis after taking care of your own needs.
We want the woman in our life to have her own interests and hobbies to fulfill and recharge her.
It also makes it easier for a guy to do things to show his love for you. He can buy you gifts and participate with you, which any man will tell you is the way boys show their love naturally.
Be nice advice no. 7: Attractive women make men feel interesting, special, and adored.
If there’s one tip on this list that you’re paying attention to, it’s this one.
It’s not too exaggerated when I tell you that a lot of guys see women as complaints. We hear women complaining about their bodies, their mothers, their girlfriends, their boss, their period, their job, their … okay, you get the point.
There is simply nothing less appealing than a person complaining all the time. For a man, going out with an Eeyore is a kind of death.
A boy can look out and imagine the next 30 years of his life, and he will not want to see this time full of annoyance and unhappiness.
So it’s just as rare when you find a woman doing the opposite: she loves and adores men, without complaining.
She’s not complaining about how she’s watching sports from US, or how she’s behaving like a child, again.
She is out there enjoying and celebrating the things that make her a MAN, even if they are no always the things she would choose.
I am no talking about kissing him and fake flattery, either. I mean you can find things about him that other women find annoying and realize that many of them will not change throughout your life.
So if you can turn energy into a kind of “I want to love it, not change it” charge, it’s YOURS.
And look, if we’re being perfectly honest about it, we know there’s always SOMETHING to complain about.
And that goes for men too. We are May i will say a person is perfect.
So even if you find the man who liked everything you do, you’ll find a way to complain because he’s too good.
REMEMBER: A boy instinctively feels desire for the woman that makes him feel wanted.
It’s very big, and maybe it’s worth reading again …
We will pursue the woman who makes us feel good about ourselves. So it’s worth paying attention to YOUR feelings in the relationship.
(Yes, believe it or not, he’s going through a lot of emotions behind that quiet, unperturbed exterior.)
You see, the most important thing for a boy is to choose his girlfriend – and his possible wife – very CAREFULLY. He knows that his happiness and future success depend on making the right decision.
He has to choose ONE.
But most women don’t know HOW a man makes that choice.
If you want to find out about the tacit process a man goes through when choosing his SOULMATE, you can check out my new course on this.
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