What kind of thing will a man do if he really loves you?
Well, if you had to ask a question to define “romantic”, I think it would be exactly what: “What would a man do for love?”
It is also the subject of virtually every romantic film ever made. The man goes through a chivalrous test to win the hand of his beautiful maiden in marriage.
Well, these days (if you watch TV or movies) it’s more about the boy being a doofus, and the woman he is the one who fixes it. I’ll bet it feels a lot like that too, you have to bring he around yours way of thinking.
I recently received an email from someone asking me this:
“What if the boy doesn’t put in the effort to get to know me? at least send me a message.
“Should I ask him why he’s not making any effort?”
The really sad part of this email is that it’s obvious that … even if he loves it (which I don’t think she does) – she can’t compete with her life.
Sometimes we are so wrapped up to want love has found us again missing the reality that are not available. It’s pretty obvious this guy doesn’t have time to really be there for her.
Well, I want to show you what to keep in mind so you don’t end up with the wrong man, or a guy who doesn’t. I really love you as you deserve.
Are you curious about what a man will do for love?
Then we go straight into the 7 things a man will do, only if he really loves you …
Men are expected to be men, no matter what the news about gender roles says. A woman will simply NOT be satisfied with a man who is not accused of some degree of masculinity.
And one of the critical “masculine” traits is INITIATIVE.
You see, a guy has to take the initiative to chase you. Failure to do so, or you intervene to make things happen on behalf of empowermentthe whole house of cards known as ‘romance’ is likely to collapse.
Let me explain …
Suppose you find a guy who is interested in you and you show that interest. Looks like he’s interested in coming back, and he’s dating.
- You probably won’t be sure where you’re with him. Rightly so! You he was the one who started it, so it’s not clear if he would have asked you if you didn’t.
How would that feel? Probably awful.
- You would feel compromised and insecure. After all, you have made your interest known, and now you have to see if he will do his part and show some initiative.
- Hey, you don’t have to work too hard now. You did all the work for him! So it’s much more likely to be NO he will chase you because he is pretty sure he knows how you feel. (Yes, men are MOTIVATED when they DON’T know if you’re interested.)
You see how nothing good can it really come from you as a hunter?
It never works for the woman chasing the man.
So look for his initiative to tell you whether or not he is in love. A man in love is putting his energy into making things work.
He’ll do THIS if he loves you # 2: he’ll go for “The Bone …”
Okay, get your mind off the channel … I’m talking about FUN os.
When a guy loves you, he’ll want to make you laugh. And if you’re honest with yourself, this is one of them most important things to have in a boy.
The reason women find such a good sense of humor so important is that it shows so much intelligence I flexibility in a man. This kind of perception in a man is priceless for a woman’s happiness.
You should make jokes and jokes to make you laugh and do it regularly.
I should work to make you feel happy, which is how you know it is loving You.
What does a man do when he loves you # 3: he will be your policeman …
You know the police motto next to all your cruises, right?
“To protect and serve”
Well, your husband has to protect you you – and serve you when you need it. Feeling safe in a man’s arms it is one of the most powerful elements of attraction.
A man who is in love will care a little for you. He will want to make sure you take care of yourself.
And, of course, it will serve your needs along the way. It may be just for small ways, but it will take time and thought to do what you need, whether it’s a drink from the fridge or bringing something to eat together.
When a man loves you, he will do THIS – # 4: he will show you his belly …
In the animal world, one of the most powerful signs of vulnerability is when an animal turns its back to reveal its stomach. Dogs do this when they play and want to show submission.
Your husband will do the same when he loves you. Well, it doesn’t literally spin, but it will EMOTIONALLY.
He will be vulnerable to you and will be revealed to you. Now, that doesn’t mean he’s starting to cry and confess his soul. But it does mean that he should let you know his feelings and thoughts.
He will start telling you when things are bothering him, the problems he has with people at work, or the things that worry him.
It can start quite small, and that’s because it’s testing the waters to see if you’ll see what it’s doing. He wants to feel SECURITY to reveal more. If you violate his emotional security, he will withdraw and not risk it again.
If he becomes vulnerable, that’s when you need to know how to connect with him in a way that makes him feel safe.
So count on a man reveal their vulnerabilities – no matter how small.
When a man loves a woman – number 5: don’t miss the little things …
A guy who is really in tune with you will know the little things that matter to you. He will notice, and not only will he try to find you where you are, but he will attract you.
A perfect example of this is behavior…
He will make small but important changes to his behavior to show you that you are important to him. You may have mentioned that you had an ex who used to go hiking on the weekends.
Now, if you like it, make the effort to get in better shape, or take it you on excursions.
He is mentally observing what you like and what excites you, inspires you and makes you happy.
When the time is right, you will try to enchant yourself by showing that improved part of your life.
He will demonstrate the behavior he thinks you want … whatever makes you want to. He won’t really consider it “changing for you” … just showing it he wants your approval.
If he really loves you – # 6: you will be in the Inside…
Many women worry when they fail to meet a man’s family and friends, and rightly so. After about a month of leaving, you it should be part of your “inner circle.”
A man will naturally attract you to the social network of his life if he has more than sexual feelings for you.
When your emotions are compromised by you – that is, he LOVES you – You will meet everyone in your life. He’ll want to show you others if he thinks he has a “catch.”
You should also be on holiday after 3 or 4 months. If that doesn’t work for you, you need to start asking yourself some difficult questions. Because, normally, a man will only invite you to go “inside” if he thinks you are a guardian and is falling in love with you.
So consider this in huge sign of your love …
What will a boy do for love – # 7: he will do it To say You …
Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either. But if a guy is really in love, he’ll find a way, or many ways, to tell you.
That doesn’t always mean words, But. Some guys have a big barrier between their ability to feel (yes, we feel … DEEPLY) and our ability to describe these emotions to others.
You may have experienced this in a number of ways. Some women will put the “I love you” out there, desperate to hear it again. (I recommend that you never tell a man that you love him unless you NO need to hear it.) Then they are crushed when he does not say the same thing. Not because he doesn’t feel it, but because he’s not so attached to words.
But watch out for all the other ways a man can show you his love ACTION. That’s how most men say they love you, but women completely miss it because it doesn’t match their “love language”.
- Do you fix things?
- Do you go out of your way to find things on the Internet and send them to you?
- Does he bring you coffee in the morning?
- Do you anticipate any small needs of yours in advance?
These are just some of the small ways that a boy will show that he loves you.
Remember, you can’t control how people love you, so make sure you don’t miss out on how he could. now be loving you …
– Keep your eyes open!
And if you want to know how to get inside your head – a connect with him at a level that will make him instantly adore the ground you walk on …
Check out this free presentation and find out how to connect with it …
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