Nothing makes you panic more than asking yourself: Are you losing interest in me? And you know you have to regain your interest if you want to keep the relationship going.
So he doesn’t seem as interested as before, and why isn’t there any effort …?
It happens in all relationships: the dance of attraction back and forth. One moment they are hot, one moment they are not.
But when a woman feels that a man is disconnecting from her or moving away or planning to separate, she slows down and wants to get closer to him again. It’s scary and fills you with panic when a guy seems to be losing interest.
RULE NUMBER U: Don’t be scared!
It is tempting to go in and start feeding him and taking care of him too much, hoping that this will slow down or stop his withdrawal. But in all likelihood, it will only speed up your exit.
Hey, it’s a big kill that the man you put your hopes on suddenly stops trying and checks the relationship. It’s a shame!
But don’t let your emotions guide the show. They’ll just send you to do things you know you shouldn’t do.
- Call it too much …
- Send too many text messages …
- Lowering your limits to get you interested again …
- Act with need …
And much more.
I’ll leave you with a few more rules along the way, but this is HEE-YUGE! Don’t break it.
Now let’s jump the 5 signs that he is losing interest in you …
What means? SIGN # 1: You’re making waffles …
Yeah Al that sounds pretty crap to me, Looks like BT aint for me either.
There is also a certain level of excuse that comes with this territory. You might ask your partner to make plans to do something together, and you start to find lame reasons why you can’t make an effort.
For example, you have plans to meet every Saturday for a Netflix movie. And suddenly this is the first week (of the last TEN) who said he “will stay home and play video games with the boys.”
Maybe it worries you, too I could that’s exactly what he said – one night to go out with the boys.
You see, men need to go out with each other from time to time to restore those feelings and connections.
I sometimes he will lowers the relationship priority when she plans to make her husband.
It is not permanent, but he’s watching to see how you react if it takes a while for him. If you’re great it’s great.
And he’s likely to be back right away wanting to hang out on Sunday night after chopping his social crawl.
But if you start to feel needy, act jealous or possessive, or even try STOP him to do this (VERY BAD IDEA) – you will feel reluctant to pull back. And that won’t make him feel like this is a healthy relationship.
So be careful with your waffles and suddenly it gets a little uncertain about things. It will come out from time to time.
It’s all inside how do you respond this will determine if he returns with passion … or not so much.
SIGN # 2: Not so excited …
You want to know that you are feeling a little emotional in your relationship. It won’t be at its highest level like when you started dating it, but it should still be there.
You must feel a level of “positive response potential“It simply means that you still feel good about your relationship.
Here’s a test: Send him a purely logistical communication, such as “When does (some new movie) open to cinemas? “
If you respond with the dry fact of the date, and nothing else, you are probably in a blah place.
Your partner doesn’t feel motivated to get excited.
If you feel that you are not so excited about your relationship, here it is they are Some things you can do to light a fire:
- Shake things up – Break your routines and change them.
- Show him another side of you – Maybe you’re the kind of girl who doesn’t swear much. Aren’t you used to liking action movies? Take it out to see the latest shoot ’em up. Breaks expectations!
- Give him a reason to look twice at what he has … Look, honey, it’s perfectly normal and natural to enjoy the glow of other men’s interest. And your husband must see that you are valued by others for inspiration YOUR APPRECIATION. This is just life.
- Stir things up! Don’t expect your partner to do that. Men often think that women are too passive when it comes to starting things in the relationship. Grab the bull by the horns – you make plans to take it to a new and interesting place.
You want some fire in your relationship and communication, and that’s perfectly understandable. You don’t want to be “just friends”, so take a few steps to get started!
SIGN # 3: It’s leaving a delicious aftertaste …
Just after a guy starts to lose interest, he starts acting a little negative. If you notice that your husband is starting to behave a little nasty and bad at times, you should stop and look at things.
Especially if you think you have a “love” and a healthy relationship.
One of the ways he will do this is by choosing fights. He will become sensitive to things or bark at relatively small things that he would normally have overlooked.
Of course, there is a possibility that it is stressed out from another area of his life. However, you should be talking and communicating with him enough to know if this is the case.
If you move away from dating and pajamas with a BLAH feeling, it’s a clue that something is happening …
SIGN # 4: Sex is bipolar …
What I mean by “bipolar” is that you find yourself to be anyone NOT MORE have sex when you are with him, or you have none.
Any situation says something about how you feel about the relationship, or the LACK of a committed relationship.
Now, if you’re doing horizontal bop all the time, I things are going well, why are you reading this, girl? Are you OK!
But if you’re doing the nasty thing – i NOT MORE the nasty – and no intimacy … well, something doesn’t happen.
Men usually experience sex in two ways:
- Connection, regular sex: Men feel connected THROUGH sex. Which is different from how many women interpret the need for a man.
- Fun and release: Men are biologically programmed to need sex. This is what some women already know about men. But it is seldom understood that men can require both. Nor is it “accepted” that men have this biological need that is not an emotional need.
If you find that sex is gone, this is a great warning sign. Especially if you’ve acted interested and he just didn’t accompany you.
For a man, a committed relationship MUST have a lot of physical intimacy as well as communicative intimacy.
SIGN # 5: Not interested – No effort …
The final sign for you is simply this:
- Are you asking questions about your life?
- Does he still seem to care about your well-being?
- Are you concerned about things going on in your life?
- Still asking you questions?
A guy who is still connected to you and the relationship will be interested in your life and well-being. He wants your truth!
If you’re NOT interested in what’s going on with you, don’t make plans, and your conversation is empty and boring, you’ll probably have a Big problem.
It is natural that you will feel more comfortable in your relationship the longer you are together. And you may not be able to switch to interrogation mode. But at least he should show up some genuine interest regularly.
- Do you have questions about things you’ve talked about or mentioned?
- And does your partner pay attention to the things you tell him that are important?
- Your boyfriend is making plans and putting them on minimum effort?
Again, it’s not much to ask, and it’s something simple enough to do what you should be doing wait for it. Yes, you are titled to this in a relationship, and is entitled yours interest, too.
Now, I have another one RULE for you…
RULE 2: If you do not meet your minimum relationship requirements, you you have to ASK for them …
Not in an unhealthy way, mind you. But it is up to you to make sure that your needs are met, from communication to sexual intimacy.
I’ve seen many women sacrifice their own needs just to stay in relationships.
In short, if you don’t get what you want, the relationship will not work.
And here is something very important FINAL rule:
RULE 3: If you begin to withdraw or move away, regain your power.
Your power is the power to keep you engaged, to strive, and to stay obsessed with you.
A man should stay in the area of healthy desire for you. This is yours POWER as a woman, and it is one that every woman wants to have above her husband and her relationships.
Do you know how to regain that power if you have lost it?
It’s not hard to keep a man obsessed with you, but you have to know it how to turn on the head switch …
Find out how HERE: The Obsession Switch
UPDATED – 5/3/2021
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