I just read a fun feature about “10 Realistic Sex Tips” that will get you started re-evaluate your own relationship.
Okay, I understand that things can happen rancid after a while, but it won’t be SO boring if you bring “at least six months” together.
Again, I’m probably taking myself too seriously because a quick browse of the author’s “advice” proves it’s anything. BUT serious.
(Feedback: your list is a bit cheeky, so it’s not the best page to open for work.)
Although it does not in reality We talk a lot about sex, the satirical publication does make some valid points between humor.
To me, what the article really meant is:
If you focus on building a real relationship based on emotional stability, sex will be a fact (and these tips would not apply to you).
If there is a REAL connection between you, you will always be on under the sheets.
This is true even if you forgot shave your legs for a couple of days or as much as he likes to wear that faded, cracked T-shirt from his college years.
On a general note, I think he also talks about main problem with a lot of couples.
They tend to be too focused on all of this blandaromantic feelings at the beginning of the relationship, so much so that they believe it is enough to keep them going through the years.
But that could not be further from the reality of being in a relationship. Those feelings of passion will leveling, you’ll get on each other’s nerves with yours annoying habitsand your differences will arise.
However, this is not something you should worry about. It’s just a natural part of growing up together.
With enough time, care and maturity, you will fall deeper in love with each other.
So, you would like to pay attention to some of them key areas in your relationship, such as:
- The way to argue: look for it overthrow each other instead of understanding the problem you are struggling with? Take note if any of you are more interested attacker the other instead of the problem.
- You are in the same page when it comes to your shared goals? This is where most of your differences lie; make sure you move to the same direction as for your relationship.
- How well do you know each other?micro level”? Is you conscious of what has been bothering your partner at work, what do you want to achieve in the coming months or the names of your high school friends you see every two weeks?
- So good do you handle your differences What usually happens when you’re not on the same page as your values and principles? You are able to influence each other, or you do have problems accepting your individual perspectives?
There are probably more, but these points will definitely be important within the first year of your relationship. Don’t feel bad, though, if you feel like you’re not doing as well as you’d like in these areas.
Everything is part of the growth process. You can still work on these points as you go along, so take it as it comes.
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Yours, in Perfect Passion,
– Carlos Cavallo
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